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                                         Unsaid…

Have you ever tried being quiet and not speaking a single word for the whole day and expecting people to understand what exactly you want to say and do the same? No right, because without using words it is impossible for us to express ourselves anywhere and in front of anyone. In our life’s the words carry important place because whatever you want to say is to be expressed by using the appropriate words so that the person understands it well and is easy to decode as well
If you love them you have to express it through words because gesture won’t help you much, if you want to express something you again have to use words for them to understand your feelings. But have you ever imagined what if we just stop using words and then try and understand what someone has to speak? Difficult right?
Sometimes I think that what about those people who are secretly crushing on someone or are in love with someone but are not able to express themselves or put forth their feeling in form words for that person to understand what exactly they feel. Well it’s always been said that love has no language and also love does not need words to be expressed, it is a feeling which is being embraced by time and being cherished for the rest of the life. But using appropriate words will just give backing to your feelings and who knows the person would understand what exactly you want to say.
One day I came across with a similar situation where one of my friend was deeply in love with a guy friend of her and they were very close, use to spend time with each other and would also understand each other well in terms of their likes and dislikes, their past experiences and also future expectations. Everything between them was crystal clear but only thing was she could never speak out what exactly she had inside her about that guy and would always stop herself from expressing with the fear of losing him as a friend as well.
The only thing I always use to ask her was what is that thing which is stopping her from expressing her feelings to him and all I would hear from her is that there are some things which can be left unsaid and can still be felt without even putting feelings into words and then expressing yourself. Sometimes even unsaid words or unsaid feelings can give you that sense of joy or belongingness which you don’t get it after expressing it.
That day I understood that it is being rightly said that, it’s better if somethings are being left unsaid….


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